Wedding Blog

A wedding filmmaker did not show up to a wedding on the weekend, and my friend Michael Kelly filled their boots at the extreme last minute

All Australian citizens or permanent residents are legally entitled by common law to commence using a ‘preferred’ name at any time without formal process. That means that if your name is Joshua Withers then you could just decide to call yourself Thor McThorcyFace today and you...

The weirdest wedding moment in my 12 year career as a celebrant so far would have been the wedding where I met with the couple getting married a number of times before the wedding, we even did a rehearsal (and I hate rehearsals), so when I arrived 60 minutes before their...

"I now pronounce you woman and husband" A Facebook page - which is probably a totally fine and lovely Facebook page, I really don't know it - has raised the thought of how some people in the past use these words: I now pronounce you woman and husband" and here's the thing. I've...

I wanted to share a little bit into the process of being a celebrant, but also in creating your marriage ceremony, and of course, your marriage. The thing is, your marriage matters, your marriage ceremony matters, and I put all of my heart, mind, body, and soul into it. I...

As the guy standing up the front of your marriage ceremony, I often see your wedding from a completely different point of view than your guests do – and often differently from how you do.

Here’s a pro wedding planning tip that no-one’s going to publish in a pretty wedding magazine or talk about in a wedding planning Facebook group. All wedding vendors, venues, creatives, artists, charge reasonably.

Britt and I were lucky enough to be guests on The Wedcast, a wedding podcast hosted by two friends of mine from the Byron Bay wedding industry, Kiera, the wedding planner behind Creative Weddings and Alex Ouston, makeup artist....

The words "wedding tradition" don't actually mean anything. Here's what I mean by that, on a personal note to you, and your family and your people, the word "wedding tradition" mean something, but to a wedding professional they are less descriptive than you would know. There's...

How to spend your wedding budget, a quick Rebels Guide. Book a wedding planner who doesn’t refer to their clients as brides. Brides don’t get married, couples do. Book a photographer that shares ceremony photos. The ceremony is a place the photographer has no control and no...

My friend Chris hosts a podcast about what makes us happy, so I was super happy to be a guest on his show. You can listen below or find your subscribe links here.

Tomorrow is my 11th celebrant birthday, 11 years a celebrant, wow, and today I've been thinking about all the funny/stupid things the wedding industry bought into my world over the last 11 years.Here's a few that have been rattling around in my head. It's hilarious how far...

I was lucky enough to be a guest on Briggsy's new podcast, Chase This Light, so listen and enjoy below!

A couple of mine asked a good question about why we would do their legal marriage paperwork in Australia before their destination elopement. So I thought I best share the answer with you as well. My authority to marry people is only valid on Australian soil, in British Columbia...

Hi! I’m Josh 👋🏻 Josh Withers, wedding celebrant from the Gold Coast, and I make fun, intimate, and personal marriage ceremonies. I’m a husband to Britt, a dad to Luna, and a gadget nerd, when I’m not stalking the Foo Fighters. Where I live is super central to...

I get so many frequently asked questions and frequently confused points about the marriage paperwork, so, I thought I’d try and clear up some common misconceptions and ideas around getting legally married in Australia.

I spend a lot of time thinking about the art of ceremony. What it takes to create an epic ceremony. The kind of ceremony that people would be so immersed in that it could go on for days and you wouldn't notice. The kind of ceremony that leaves an impression on people. The kind...

My goal for 2020 is to convince the world that your entire wedding will be better if you choose your team before you choose your date. Here's eight reasons why: The humans you invite to create your wedding, from the celebrant and the photographer through to the venue...

I see so many couples stressed out over unnecessary stresses at their wedding. Expectations set by family, friends, wedding magazines and the wedding industry. Scrap it all, throw away your old wedding checklist and get a real one. I might have over simplified the process, but...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Feplz7KXTM8&t=41s https://anchor.fm/therebelsguide/episodes/The-wedding-checklist-e343tu The second that you tell someone that you're getting married, everyone has an opportunity to say this, this, this, this, this, this, this, this, and I am...

Qantas just emailed me with with an offer to refer people to the American Express deal I'm on, and it got me thinking ... there's a free honeymoon in this deal. So here's how it works: applying for this American Express (before October 9) and spending $3000 on it within three...

Jenn and Steve Van Elk invited me onto their podcast, Wedded, a conversation about getting married and being married. We talked about a subject that I'm far too passionate about: getting married your way. Enjoy!

Hey, wedding guests, I’m talking to you today. There are two people getting married and you’re invited to celebrate with them. I know what you’re thinking, gosh, another bloody wedding but this is no ordinary wedding, this is their wedding, and it’s a miracle that they are even...

Like anyone in the wedding industry, I love a good trend. They give us just enough guidance to keep our creativity flowing, with an equal outpouring of freedom so we can find our own way through the noise.

What is a wedding for? Is it for getting married? Surely it’s more than that, because the legal simple act of getting married only requires 120 words and five signatures.

There’s a thousand articles spread across this fine establishment we are lucky enough to publish on called the Internet that list in great number all the things you can save money on at your wedding. I’m going to try and turn the tide a little and encourage you to empty your wallet on a few select products or services if only because a wedding is a luxury.

My favourite thing about weddings is that they're a rare sanctioned time for all of us to be real with each other. We say things we don't normally say and talk about things we don't normally talk about. We're encouraging, honest, and again, real. So it is with today, just us as...

Over my long career creating wedding ceremonies there have been numerous occasions where a parent, or parents couldn’t attend their child’s wedding. At our own wedding it was because some weren’t invited, at others their parents could not be present on the day because of...

Instant apologies for the clickbait headline, but lets be honest, if I'd used my original headline "The internet isn't having your wedding, only you are" there was a 50% less of a chance of you getting this far into the piece. And luckily for all of us, that is pretty much the...

We've all been on the outside before. We've been the person not picked for the sports team, the friend not invited to dinner, the person not thanked in the shopping list of thank yous. It sucks. I hear it from my couples every day, they tell me about how their family is this...

Our words matter, they make our world, and explain where our heart is. That’s always been at the heart of my work and what I create, and we’ve always been deliberate with our words in this business. You might notice that we don’t use words like “Bride and Groom” or we don’t...

Driving around California this week following Google Maps’ directions I can see a similarity between satellite navigation and wedding planning. Locals driving around Los Angeles always know where to go, and they know all the major highways and routes. They've done this before,...

This blog has a about a 60/40 split readership of couples getting married, and people that create events where people get married. If you're a couple getting married this will probably bore you to death, so feel free to skip it. But if you're a celebrant – or someone in the...

I believe the traditional way of finishing a marriage ceremony with a song of your choosing, although it has worked well up until now, is a tradition that needs to end and all marriage ceremonies should end with Dire Straits' 'Walk of Life'. This world changing proposal is...

Ana recently asked me to write a blog post about interfaith and interracial marriage ceremonies. What a loaded topic! I didn't know what to write, until I realised that the topic was fairly well covered recently by an email from a local high school student who asked of me an...

WeddingWire have given me an idea to write about something that is right down my alley, and something I wish I could talk to everyone about: the pre-pre-wedding checklist. Having a wedding checklist like this one from my friends at WeddingWire is key to staying on track during...

Everyone has an opinion on wedding speeches, personally, when they're encouraging and engaging I love them. And so many people asked to make a speech spend the whole wedding flipping out over the fear of making one. Here's an easy and fun way to replace boring, long, and...

Here's a simple truth: an Australian wedding costs what an Australian wedding costs. Your budget is going to be unique to you, and ours was unique to us, but let me lay down what I think some averages are. If you're an industry rep, email me if you think some of these budgets...

Don't thank every single person that you need to thank. That's it. If you stop reading this post now you can move on with your life a little bit wiser. I attend more weddings than the average bear, albeit I'm usually MCing the reception, or performing the marriage ceremony, but...

In other posts I've written I've had a lot of fun with wedding predictions, just last week my 2017 wedding trends post went live on Yahoo7 Be, but this post is pure numbers. Numbers can mean everything/or nothing, so here's my explanation of the nothing that is three years of...

A little blog post throwback for year that was 2016 in the world of Josh and Britt.

Spoiler alert: it was awesome.

Note: There were 365 days of awesome in this year, to boil that down to 16 points was hard, so at least 349 people, elopements, weddings, events, and celebrations are missing, sorry!

I'm a massive Apple fanboy. It's worth sharing this at the start of this blog post. I'm writing this on an iPad Pro and my phone is an iPhone 7 Plus. I've read all of the Steve Jobs books and seen all the movies. Confession complete! I'm also heavily invested in the spotlight...

Yahoo7 Be asked me to help their readers save their wedding by not making traditional mistakes, I list six things you can ditch, here's one: Ditch the rehearsal: The wedding rehearsal exists either because we needed something to name the "before the wedding dinner", or because...

September 24 2016 saw Newtown brewery, Young Henry's, filled with couples being married. For the full explanation, visit the original blog post. I could prattle on about the day for ever, but the photos tell the story better. Morgan Roberts and Elle Dawson-Scott volunteered...

Teegan asks: What does it actually mean to be legally married — in terms of finances, assets, what it means for both people if one does something wrong legally, etc — it seems a lot of people fall into these traps that they don't even know exist which leads to breakdowns. Being...

Joel and Liezl were dead set on not having just another wedding, but on celebrating the creation of their own marriage. They wanted something real, and meaningful. It happened! Involving myself, Sydney's Hannah Blackmore photography, Newcastle's Light Noise Films, Brisbane's...

Kirsten and Scott are two of those disgusting high school sweethearts that just ooze love and affection. I'd love for you to meet them! So I sat down and asked them a bunch of questions about creating their wedding, the whys, the hows, the whats, and thought you'd love it as a...

Simone stood on the banks of the Brisbane River outside of Northshore Harbour Cafe and made the commitment to "fill our home with good food, entertain you with endless impersonations, and to continue our adventures together" and to"be patient when you show me annoying videos...

Regular attendees to the sideshow that is this blog will know that I'm on a crazy, under-appreciated, and never really totally understood journey to burrow to the bottom of the wedding universe and see if there's any meaning left at the bottom of it. The good news is that there...

If you spend a few moments in a  glossy wedding magazine, or reading some stupid article about weddings from the mainstream media within the first few moments you're often provided the timely reminder that a wedding is either: the most important day of your life, the best day...

I’m sorry. The headline was designed to  make you feel something. Designed to get you into the article, I really wanted you to read it! In the media world this kind of thing is called clickbait, but this article isn’t. There’s not even a top 10 list! The headline is an actual...

Creating and running an event is a skill worthy of a university degree. Seriously, people go to university for four years to learn the skills that you’re trying to enact in creating your own wedding. So apart from really good advice along the lines of “hire a wedding planner for the love of God and your own sanity”, I thought I’d put some thoughts of my own into a blog post about how you could take your wedding planning in a personal and intimate direction.

As most wedding blog posts start, things aren’t as they used to be with more and more couples paying for their wedding on their own. Traditionally parents would pay the $30,000-60,000 bill but that came with all the negative aspects of your parents having far too much control...

Full day workshop on Sunday, July 3, 2016 in Teneriffe, Brisbane This is a workshop for people that are in the business of care. It's not a celebrants workshop, it's not even really a wedding industry workshop, although if you're in the wedding business you'll love it! I firmly...

At a recent wedding industry event someone was telling me about the “wedding tax” that she had encountered in planning her own wedding. Let me help you avoid it today.

After the big budget day, the stress and the drinks, all of the things that make up a wedding day, what have you got left over? That's the thought in my mind as I'm planning most things, like blog posts, or workshops, or events or date nights. How will it all end. Where will we...

I'm the hopeless romantic/cheerleader for marriage. I see so much good come from it, I am lucky enough to enjoy one myself, I think better marriages make for a better society. I reckon life is really good when you hook up with an awesome person. So as I was reading Thomas...

"When you do the common things in life in an uncommon way, you will command the attention of the world" Felicia first emailed The Elopement...

Tomorrow, in their eyes, and the eyes of their friends and family, I am marrying Amy and Te Ana. At this stage, the Australian marriage laws don't really match up with their understanding of marriage, so we can't sign any official marriage paperwork, but we can sign this: a...

I go to great lengths to try and tell everyone all about me before they ever hire me, so there's no surprises. So when Will emailed me after Sarah and his wedding I thought his feedback was not only encouraging and helpful internally, it might actually be useful to people that...

Not many people would advocate for people to cancel their services, and I'm probably not going to make a habit out of it, but when a couple contacted me this week letting me know that they were cancelling me, and it was my fault, it has been on my mind ever since I opened the...

Bridal parties exist because of the historical threat of real actual demons attacking weddings. True story. Our ancestors used to be stressed about demons attacking the good things in life, like marriage ceremonies. Now I’m not going to be the guy to downplay the threat of...

A common conversation we have with couples being married is about their wedding budget, and in particular, their budget for a celebrant.

Josh takes a look at the current wedding audience and wonders what if anyone would even attend a wedding in the future?

I’m answering a very common and innocent question on my blog today: how much styling and furniture do I bring to your wedding?

Things almost everyone gets wrong on their NOIM When I'm marrying couples I need the paperwork to be spot-on. It just saves messaging back and forth between myself, the couple, and the births, deaths, and marriages department. To be married in Australia, you need to have a...

Full day workshop on Sunday, May 22, 2016 in Sydney I firmly believe that the only thing I really have to give to my clients, my customers, the people that invite me into their weddings, is my care. Sure I've been gifted an authority to marry people, and I might have a good...

You can watch Chris and Renae’s marriage ceremony in immersive 360 degree video

Photographer and friend, Kristina Childs, posed this question on Facebook today, and I wanted to answer it in a blog post: What are you supposed to do at the end of the ceremony? So, here's 20 things you can do at the end of the aisle after your ceremony, according to the...

Meet my wedding spirit animal One of those men, a little man to...

I was a guest on Luke & Susie's national radio show about faith, family and culture and fun things like that! It just aired this week so you might have heard me on air, but if you missed it, click the play button below or follow the link to listen on their website!...

Photos before the ceremony If you're looking for the simplest, easiest, and most meaningful way to introduce some peace and calm into your wedding day, here's a solution that has been just sitting there waiting for you. 45-90 minutes before the ceremony, as everyone else is...

All of the details regarding obtaining a marriage license so you can legally marry in Australia with a civil celebrant or religious minister

My daily effort is to try and think of new and awesome ways to create meaningful, purposeful and enjoyable experiences that we call wedding ceremonies. So, getting this email from Kailah and Vu really made my day, not only because of their kind words, but because they got it,...

When you're "in the trenches" of life, that is, doing the work that you're called to do you can sometimes have a restricted view. I know that for many times this year my view was restricted to that last disaster or problem or issue, and stretched as forward to "the next big...

Ahead of the Star Wars premiere this week an Australian couple are being married outside of the theatre, which lead Terri Begley and I into a discussion on ABC 612 Brisbane, and statewide on ABC Local Radio, about weird weddings - and all of my weddings are weird it turns out....

Daniel and Toni became husband and wife on Slingsby's Dairy Farm in Beechmont this November, and I really wanted everyone to hear their wedding planning story so I convinced them to share it via an Instagram takeover! You can follow along on the...

I see a lot of wedding vows, I hear even more, and over my 7 or so years as a marriage celebrant I think I’ve become a bit of a ‘vow connoisseur’. I think I know the secret one word to great vows.

“Nothing kills a buzz faster than having to be responsible for the welfare and safety of small children in a room filled with innumerable safety hazards”

Han, a celebrant in North Carolina, hosts a podcast about celebrating things, which is something I spend most of my life doing, so he invited me onto his show to talk about why I do what I do, how I do it in part one. We talk about same-sex marriage and marriage law in...

Rob, Courtney, and I hung out this week to dream big about their wedding and Courtney said something that really resonated with Britt and I. She wants their wedding to feel like Christmas. Don't get confused now, she doesn't want tinsel over the arbour and all the wedding...

The Daily Mail newspaper asked me to think back over the past year of weddings and name the top ten things that could go wrong at your wedding. The article is live here but I thought I’d share my answers in verbose here for my bloggies!